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Sunan Abu Dawood, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

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Sunan Abu Dawood 4791

‘A’ISHA SAID:

A MAN ASKED PERMISSION TO SEE THE PROPHET ﷺ, AND HE SAID: HE IS A BAD SON OF THE TRIBE, OR: HE IS A BAD MEMBER OF THE TRIBE. HE THEN SAID : GIVE HIM PERMISSION. THEN WHEN HE ENTERED, HE SPOKE TO HIM LENIENTLY. ‘A’ISHAH ASKED : APOSTLE OF ALLAH! YOU SPOKE TO HIM LENIENTLY WHILE YOU SAID ABOUT HIM WHAT YOU SAID! HE REPLIED: THE ONE WHO WILL HAVE THE WORST POSITION IN ALLAH’S ESTIMATION ON THE DAY OF RESURRECTION WILL BE THE ONE WHOM PEOPLE LEFT ALONE FOR FEAR OF HIS RIBALDRY.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ ابْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتِ اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ " بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ " . أَوْ " بِئْسَ رَجُلُ الْعَشِيرَةِ " . ثُمَّ قَالَ " ائْذَنُوا لَهُ " . فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلاَنَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَلَنْتَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ وَقَدْ قُلْتَ لَهُ مَا قُلْتَ . قَالَ " إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مَنْزِلَةً يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مَنْ وَدَعَهُ - أَوْ تَرَكَهُ - النَّاسُ لاِتِّقَاءِ فُحْشِهِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4791
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4773

Sunan Abu Dawood 4792

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

A man asked permission to see the Prophet ﷺ, and the Prophet ﷺ said: He is a bad member of the tribe. When he entered, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ treated in a frank and friendly way and spoke to him. When he departed , I said: Messenger of Allah! When he asked permission, you said: He is a bad member of the tribe, but when he entered, you treated him in a frank and friendly way. The Messenger of Allah replied: Aisha! Allah does not like the one who is unseemly and lewd in his language.

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رضى الله عنها أَنَّ رَجُلاً، اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ " بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ " . فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ انْبَسَطَ إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَكَلَّمَهُ فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لَمَّا اسْتَأْذَنَ قُلْتَ " بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ " . فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ انْبَسَطْتَ إِلَيْهِ . فَقَالَ " يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لاَ يُحِبُّ الْفَاحِشَ الْمُتَفَحِّشَ " .

Classification

Hasan Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4792
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4774

Sunan Abu Dawood 4793

THE TRADITION MENTIONED ABOVE HAS BEEN TRANSMITTED BY ‘A’ISHAH THROUGH A DIFFERENT CHAIN OF NARRATORS. THIS VERSION HAS:

THE PROPHET ﷺ SAID: ‘A’ISHAH! THERE ARE SOME BAD PEOPLE WHO ARE RESPECTED FOR FEAR OF THEIR TONGUES.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبَّاسٌ الْعَنْبَرِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا أَسْوَدُ بْنُ عَامِرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكٌ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، فِي هَذِهِ الْقِصَّةِ قَالَتْ فَقَالَ تَعْنِي النَّبِيَّ ﷺ
" يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ مِنْ شِرَارِ النَّاسِ الَّذِينَ يُكْرَمُونَ اتِّقَاءَ أَلْسِنَتِهِمْ " .

Classification

Da`eef (Weak)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4793
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4775

Sunan Abu Dawood 4794

Narrated Anas ibn Malik:

I never said that when any man brought his mouth to the ear of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he withdrew his head until the man himself withdrew his head, and I never saw that when any man took him by his hand and he withdrew his hand, until the man himself withdrew his hand.

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنِيعٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو قَطَنٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا مُبَارَكٌ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، قَالَ مَا رَأَيْتُ رَجُلاً الْتَقَمَ أُذُنَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَيُنَحِّي رَأْسَهُ حَتَّى يَكُونَ الرَّجُلُ هُوَ الَّذِي يُنَحِّي رَأْسَهُ وَمَا رَأَيْتُ رَجُلاً أَخَذَ بِيَدِهِ فَتَرَكَ يَدَهُ حَتَّى يَكُونَ الرَّجُلُ هُوَ الَّذِي يَدَعُ يَدَهُ .

Classification

Hasan (Good)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4794
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4776

Sunan Abu Dawood 4795

‘ABD ALLAH B. ‘UMAR SAID:

THE PROPHET ﷺ PASSED BY A MAN OF THE ANSAR WHEN HE WAS GIVING HIS BROTHER A WARNING AGAINST MODESTY. THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ SAID : LEAVE HIM ALONE, FOR MODESTY IS A PART OF FAITH.

حَدَّثَنَا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ سَالِمِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ مَرَّ عَلَى رَجُلٍ مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ وَهُوَ يَعِظُ أَخَاهُ فِي الْحَيَاءِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" دَعْهُ فَإِنَّ الْحَيَاءَ مِنَ الإِيمَانِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4795
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4777

Sunan Abu Dawood 4796

ABU QATADAH SAID:

WE WERE SITTING WITH ‘IMRAN B. HUSSAIN AND BUSHAIR B. KA’B WAS ALSO THERE. ‘IMRAN B. HUSSAIN REPORTED THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ AS SAYING: MODESTY IS A GOOD ALTOGETHER, OR HE SAID: MODESTY IS ALTOGETHER GOOD. BUSHAIR B. KA’B SAID : WE FIND IN SOME BOOKS THAT THERE IS A MODESTY WHICH PRODUCES PEACE AND DIGNIFIED BEARING, AND THERE IS A MODESTY WHICH PRODUCES WEAKNESS. ‘IMRAN B. HUSSAIN REPEATED THE SAME WORDS. SO ‘IMRAN BECAME ANGRY SO MUCH SO THAT HIS EYES BECAME RED, AND HE SAID : DON’T YOU SEE THAT I AM TRANSMITTING A TRADITION FROM THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ AND YOU ARE MENTIONING SOMETHING FROM YOUR BOOKS? HE (QATADAH) SAID : WE SAID : ABU NUJAID, IT IS SUFFICIENT.

حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ سُوَيْدٍ، عَنْ أَبِي قَتَادَةَ، قَالَ كُنَّا مَعَ عِمْرَانَ بْنِ حُصَيْنٍ وَثَمَّ بُشَيْرُ بْنُ كَعْبٍ فَحَدَّثَ عِمْرَانُ بْنُ حُصَيْنٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ " الْحَيَاءُ خَيْرٌ كُلُّهُ " . أَوْ قَالَ " الْحَيَاءُ كُلُّهُ خَيْرٌ " . فَقَالَ بُشَيْرُ بْنُ كَعْبٍ إِنَّا نَجِدُ فِي بَعْضِ الْكُتُبِ أَنَّ مِنْهُ سَكِينَةً وَوَقَارًا وَمِنْهُ ضَعْفًا . فَأَعَادَ عِمْرَانُ الْحَدِيثَ وَأَعَادَ بُشَيْرٌ الْكَلاَمَ قَالَ فَغَضِبَ عِمْرَانُ حَتَّى احْمَرَّتْ عَيْنَاهُ وَقَالَ أَلاَ أَرَانِي أُحَدِّثُكَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَتُحَدِّثُنِي عَنْ كُتُبِكَ . قَالَ قُلْنَا يَا أَبَا نُجَيْدٍ إِيهٍ إِيهٍ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4796
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4778

Sunan Abu Dawood 4797

ABU MASUD REPORTED THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ AS SAYING:

ONE OF THE THINGS PEOPLE HAVE LEARNT FROM THE WORDS OF THE EARLIEST PROPHECY IS : IF YOU HAVE NO SHAME, DO WHAT YOU LIKE.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، عَنْ رِبْعِيِّ بْنِ حِرَاشٍ، عَنْ أَبِي مَسْعُودٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" إِنَّ مِمَّا أَدْرَكَ النَّاسُ مِنْ كَلاَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ الأُولَى إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحِ فَافْعَلْ مَا شِئْتَ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4797
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4779

Sunan Abu Dawood 4798

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: By his good character a believer will attain the degree of one who prays during the night and fasts during the day.

حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ، - يَعْنِي الإِسْكَنْدَرَانِيَّ - عَنْ عَمْرٍو، عَنِ الْمُطَّلِبِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَحِمَهَا اللَّهُ قَالَتْ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ
" إِنَّ الْمُؤْمِنَ لَيُدْرِكُ بِحُسْنِ خُلُقِهِ دَرَجَةَ الصَّائِمِ الْقَائِمِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4798
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4780

Sunan Abu Dawood 4799

Narrated AbudDarda':

The Prophet ﷺ said: There is nothing heavier than good character put in the scale of a believer on the Day of Resurrection.

Abu al-Walid said: I heard 'Ata al-Kaikharani say: Abu Dawud said: His name is 'Ata b. Ya'qub. He is the maternal uncle of Ibrahim b. Nafi'. He is called Kaikharani or Kukharani.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ، وَحَفْصُ بْنُ عُمَرَ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا ح، وَحَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ كَثِيرٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ بْنِ أَبِي بَزَّةَ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ الْكَيْخَارَانِيِّ، عَنْ أُمِّ الدَّرْدَاءِ، عَنْ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ
" مَا مِنْ شَىْءٍ أَثْقَلُ فِي الْمِيزَانِ مِنْ حُسْنِ الْخُلُقِ " . قَالَ أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عَطَاءً الْكَيْخَارَانِيَّ . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَهُوَ عَطَاءُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ وَهُوَ خَالُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ نَافِعٍ يُقَالُ كَيْخَارَانِيٌّ وَكَوْخَارَانِيٌّ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4799
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4781

Sunan Abu Dawood 4800

Narrated Abu Umamah:

The Prophet ﷺ said: I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who gives up arguing even if he were in the right, a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids lying even if he were joking, and a house in the upper part of Paradise for a man who made his character good.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ الدِّمَشْقِيُّ أَبُو الْجَمَاهِرِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كَعْبٍ، أَيُّوبُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ السَّعْدِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ الْمُحَارِبِيُّ، عَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" أَنَا زَعِيمٌ بِبَيْتٍ فِي رَبَضِ الْجَنَّةِ لِمَنْ تَرَكَ الْمِرَاءَ وَإِنْ كَانَ مُحِقًّا وَبِبَيْتٍ فِي وَسَطِ الْجَنَّةِ لِمَنْ تَرَكَ الْكَذِبَ وَإِنْ كَانَ مَازِحًا وَبِبَيْتٍ فِي أَعْلَى الْجَنَّةِ لِمَنْ حَسَّنَ خُلُقَهُ " .

Classification

Hasan (Good)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4800
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4782

Sunan Abu Dawood 4801

HARITHAH B. WAHAB REPORTED THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ AS SAYING:

NEITHER THE JAWWAZ NOR THE JAZARI WILL ENTER PARADISE. HE SAID THAT THE JAWWAZ IS THE ONE WHO IS COARSE AND UNCIVIL.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ، وَعُثْمَانُ، ابْنَا أَبِي شَيْبَةَ قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ مَعْبَدِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ، عَنْ حَارِثَةَ بْنِ وَهْبٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" لاَ يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ الْجَوَّاظُ وَلاَ الْجَعْظَرِيُّ " . قَالَ وَالْجَوَّاظُ الْغَلِيظُ الْفَظُّ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4801
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4783

Sunan Abu Dawood 4802

ANAS SAID:

THE SHE-CAMEL OF THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ CALLED AL-ADBA HAD NOT BEEN OUTSTRIPPED BY ANOTHER, BUT AN A’RABI (A NOMADIC ARAB) CAME ON A YOUNG RIDING CAMEL OF HIS AND IT OUTSTRIPPED IT. THAT DISTRESSED THE COMPANIONS OF THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ, BUT HE SAID: IT IS ALLAH’S RIGHT THAT NOTHING SHOULD BECOME EXALTED IN THE WORLD BUT HE LOWERS IT.

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، قَالَ كَانَتِ الْعَضْبَاءُ لاَ تُسْبَقُ فَجَاءَ أَعْرَابِيٌّ عَلَى قَعُودٍ لَهُ فَسَابَقَهَا فَسَبَقَهَا الأَعْرَابِيُّ فَكَأَنَّ ذَلِكَ شَقَّ عَلَى أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ
" حَقٌّ عَلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ أَنْ لاَ يَرْفَعَ شَيْئًا مِنَ الدُّنْيَا إِلاَّ وَضَعَهُ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4802
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4784

Sunan Abu Dawood 4803

NARRATING THIS STORY ANAS REPORTED THE PROPHET ﷺ AS SAYING:

IT IS ALLAH’S RIGHT THAT NOTHING SHOULD BECOME EXALTED IN THE WORLD BUT HE LOWERS IT.

حَدَّثَنَا النُّفَيْلِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ، حَدَّثَنَا حُمَيْدٌ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، بِهَذِهِ الْقِصَّةِ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ
" إِنَّ حَقًّا عَلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ أَنْ لاَ يَرْتَفِعَ شَىْءٌ مِنَ الدُّنْيَا إِلاَّ وَضَعَهُ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4803
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4785

Sunan Abu Dawood 4804

HAMMAM SAID:

A MAN CAME AND PRAISED ‘UTHMAN IN HIS FACE,AL-MIQDAD B. AL-ASWAD TOOK DUST AND THREW IT ON HIS FACE, SAYING : THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ SAID : WHEN YOU SEE THOSE WHO ARE GIVEN TO PRAISING PEOPLE, THROW DUST IN THEIR FACES.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ هَمَّامٍ، قَالَ جَاءَ رَجُلٌ فَأَثْنَى عَلَى عُثْمَانَ فِي وَجْهِهِ فَأَخَذَ الْمِقْدَادُ بْنُ الأَسْوَدِ تُرَابًا فَحَثَا فِي وَجْهِهِ وَقَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" إِذَا لَقِيتُمُ الْمَدَّاحِينَ فَاحْثُوا فِي وُجُوهِهِمُ التُّرَابَ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4804
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4786

Sunan Abu Dawood 4805

ABU BAKRAH SAID THAT WHEN A MAN PRAISED ANOTHER MAN IN HIS FACE IN THE PRESENCE OF THE PROPHET ﷺ SAID:

YOU HAVE BEHEADED YOUR FRIEND (SAYING IT THREE TIMES). HE THEN SAID : ONE WHO CANNOT HELP EXPRESSING PRAISE OF HIS COMPANION, SHOULD SAY : I CONSIDER HIM SUCH AND SUCH (AS HE INTENDS TO SAY), BUT I DO NOT DECLARE HIM PURE WITH ALLAH.

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو شِهَابٍ، عَنْ خَالِدٍ الْحَذَّاءِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، أَنَّ رَجُلاً، أَثْنَى عَلَى رَجُلٍ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ لَهُ " قَطَعْتَ عُنُقَ صَاحِبِكَ " . ثَلاَثَ مَرَّاتٍ ثُمَّ قَالَ " إِذَا مَدَحَ أَحَدُكُمْ صَاحِبَهُ لاَ مَحَالَةَ فَلْيَقُلْ إِنِّي أَحْسِبُهُ كَمَا يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَقُولَ وَلاَ أُزَكِّيهِ عَلَى اللَّهِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4805
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4787

Sunan Abu Dawood 4806

Narrated Abdullah ibn ash-Shikhkhir:

I went with a deputation of Banu Amir to the apostle of Allah ﷺ, and we said: You are our lord (sayyid). To this he replied: The lord is Allah, the Blessed and Exalted. Then we said: And the one of us most endowed with excellence and superiority. To this he replied: Say what you have to say, or part of what you have to say, and do not let the devil make you his agents.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرٌ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ الْمُفَضَّلِ - حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مَسْلَمَةَ، سَعِيدُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ، عَنْ مُطَرِّفٍ، قَالَ قَالَ أَبِي انْطَلَقْتُ فِي وَفْدِ بَنِي عَامِرٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقُلْنَا أَنْتَ سَيِّدُنَا . فَقَالَ " السَّيِّدُ اللَّهُ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى " . قُلْنَا وَأَفْضَلُنَا فَضْلاً وَأَعْظَمُنَا طَوْلاً . فَقَالَ " قُولُوا بِقَوْلِكُمْ أَوْ بَعْضِ قَوْلِكُمْ وَلاَ يَسْتَجْرِيَنَّكُمُ الشَّيْطَانُ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4806
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4788

Sunan Abu Dawood 4807

‘ABD ALLAH B. MUGHAFFAL REPORTED THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH ﷺ AS SAYING:

ALLAH IS GENTLE, LIKES GENTLENESS, AND GIVES FOR GENTLENESS WHAT HE DOES NOT GIVE FOR HARSHNESS.

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ يُونُسَ، وَحُمَيْدٍ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مُغَفَّلٍ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ
" إِنَّ اللَّهَ رَفِيقٌ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ وَيُعْطِي عَلَيْهِ مَا لاَ يُعْطِي عَلَى الْعُنْفِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4807
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4789

Sunan Abu Dawood 4808

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

Al-Miqdam ibn Shurayh, quoting his father, said: I asked Aisha about living in the desert. She said: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to go to the desert to these rivulets. Once he intended to go to the desert and he sent to me a she-camel from the camel of sadaqah which had not been used for riding so far. He said to me: Aisha! show gentleness, for if gentleness is found in anything, it beautifies it and when it is taken out from anything it damages it.

Ibn al-Sabbah said in his version: Muharramah means a mount which has not been used for riding.

حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ، وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ ابْنَا أَبِي شَيْبَةَ وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ الْبَزَّازُ قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكٌ، عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ شُرَيْحٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ عَنِ الْبَدَاوَةِ، فَقَالَتْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَبْدُو إِلَى هَذِهِ التِّلاَعِ وَإِنَّهُ أَرَادَ الْبَدَاوَةَ مَرَّةً فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَىَّ نَاقَةً مُحَرَّمَةً مِنْ إِبِلِ الصَّدَقَةِ فَقَالَ لِي
" يَا عَائِشَةُ ارْفُقِي فَإِنَّ الرِّفْقَ لَمْ يَكُنْ فِي شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ زَانَهُ وَلاَ نُزِعَ مِنْ شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ شَانَهُ " . قَالَ ابْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ فِي حَدِيثِهِ مُحَرَّمَةٌ يَعْنِي لَمْ تُرْكَبْ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4808
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4790

Sunan Abu Dawood 4809

Narrated Jarir:

The Prophet ﷺ said: He who is deprived of gentleness is deprived of good.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، وَوَكِيعٌ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ تَمِيمِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ هِلاَلٍ، عَنْ جَرِيرٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" مَنْ يُحْرَمِ الرِّفْقَ يُحْرَمِ الْخَيْرَ كُلَّهُ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4809
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4791

Sunan Abu Dawood 4810

Narrated Sa'd:

The Prophet ﷺ said: There is hesitation in everything except in the actions of the next world.

حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الصَّبَّاحِ، حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ، حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ الأَعْمَشُ، عَنْ مَالِكِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ، - قَالَ الأَعْمَشُ وَقَدْ سَمِعْتُهُمْ يَذْكُرُونَ، عَنْ مُصْعَبِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ الأَعْمَشُ - وَلاَ أَعْلَمُهُ إِلاَّ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ
" التُّؤَدَةُ فِي كُلِّ شَىْءٍ إِلاَّ فِي عَمَلِ الآخِرَةِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4810
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4792

Sunan Abu Dawood 4811

Narrated AbuHurayrah:

The Prophet ﷺ said: He who does not thank Allah does not thank people.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسْلِمُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، حَدَّثَنَا الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ زِيَادٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ
" لاَ يَشْكُرُ اللَّهَ مَنْ لاَ يَشْكُرُ النَّاسَ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4811
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4793

Sunan Abu Dawood 4812

Narrated Anas ibn Malik:

The Immigrants (Muhajirun) said: Messenger of Allah! the Helpers (Ansar) got the entire reward. He said: no, so long as you pray to Allah for them and praise them.

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، أَنَّ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ، قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ذَهَبَتِ الأَنْصَارُ بِالأَجْرِ كُلِّهِ . قَالَ
" لاَ مَا دَعَوْتُمُ اللَّهَ لَهُمْ وَأَثْنَيْتُمْ عَلَيْهِمْ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4812
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4794

Sunan Abu Dawood 4813

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah:

The Prophet ﷺ said: If someone is given something, he should give a return for it provided he can afford; if he cannot afford, he should praise him. He who praises him for it, thanks him, and he who conceals it is ungrateful to him.

Abu Dawud said: It has been transmitted by Yahya b. Ayyub, from 'Umarah b. Ghaziyyah, from Sharahbil on the authority of Jabir

Abu Dawud said: In the chain of this tradition 'Umarah b. Ghaziyyah said: A man from my tribe said. The man referred by him is in Sharahbil. It is likely that they disliked him and, therefore, they did not blame him.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرٌ، حَدَّثَنَا عُمَارَةُ بْنُ غَزِيَّةَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي رَجُلٌ، مِنْ قَوْمِي عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ
" مَنْ أُعْطِيَ عَطَاءً فَوَجَدَ فَلْيَجْزِ بِهِ فَإِنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ فَلْيُثْنِ بِهِ فَمَنْ أَثْنَى بِهِ فَقَدْ شَكَرَهُ وَمَنْ كَتَمَهُ فَقَدْ كَفَرَهُ " . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ رَوَاهُ يَحْيَى بْنُ أَيُّوبَ عَنْ عُمَارَةَ بْنِ غَزِيَّةَ عَنْ شُرَحْبِيلَ عَنْ جَابِرٍ . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَهُوَ شُرَحْبِيلُ يَعْنِي رَجُلاً مِنْ قَوْمِي كَأَنَّهُمْ كَرِهُوهُ فَلَمْ يُسَمُّوهُ .

Classification

Hasan (Good)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4813
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4795

Sunan Abu Dawood 4814

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah:

The Prophet ﷺ said: If someone is donated something, and he mentions it, he thanks for it, and if he conceals it, he is ungrateful for it.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ، حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ
" مَنْ أَبْلَى بَلاَءً فَذَكَرَهُ فَقَدْ شَكَرَهُ وَإِنْ كَتَمَهُ فَقَدْ كَفَرَهُ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4814
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4796

Sunan Abu Dawood 4815

ABU SA’ID AL-KHUDRI REPORTED THE APOSTLE OF ALLAHﷺ AS SAYINGS:

AVOID SITTING IN THE ROADS. THE PEOPLE SAID: APOSTLE OF ALLAH! WE MUST HAVE MEETING PLACES IN WHICH TO CONVERSE. THE APOSTLE OF ALLAH( MAY PEACE BE UPON HIM) SAID: IF YOU INSIST ON MEETING,GIVE THE ROAD ITS DUE. THEY ASKED: WHAT IS THE DUE OF ROADS, APOSTLE OF ALLAH? HE REPLIED: LOWERING THE EYES, REMOVING ANYTHING OFFENSIVE, RETURNING SALUTATION, COMMANDING WHAT IS REPUTABLE AND FORBIDDING WHAT IS DISREPUTABLE.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ مُحَمَّدٍ - عَنْ زَيْدٍ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ أَسْلَمَ - عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ " إِيَّاكُمْ وَالْجُلُوسَ بِالطُّرُقَاتِ " . فَقَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا بُدٌّ لَنَا مِنْ مَجَالِسِنَا نَتَحَدَّثُ فِيهَا . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ " إِنْ أَبَيْتُمْ فَأَعْطُوا الطَّرِيقَ حَقَّهُ " . قَالُوا وَمَا حَقُّ الطَّرِيقِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ " غَضُّ الْبَصَرِ وَكَفُّ الأَذَى وَرَدُّ السَّلاَمِ وَالأَمْرُ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَالنَّهْىُ عَنِ الْمُنْكَرِ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4815
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4797

Sunan Abu Dawood 4816

ABU HURAIRAH REPORTED THE PROPHETﷺ AS SAYING ON THE SAME OCCASION:

AND GUIDING THE PEOPLE ON THEIR WAY.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرٌ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ الْمُفَضَّلِ - حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ سَعِيدٍ الْمَقْبُرِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فِي هَذِهِ الْقِصَّةِ قَالَ
" وَإِرْشَادُ السَّبِيلِ " .

Classification

Hasan Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4816
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4798

Sunan Abu Dawood 4817

Narrated Umar ibn al-Khattab:

The Prophet ﷺ said: the same occasion: Help the oppressed (sorrowful) and guide those who have lost their way.

حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عِيسَى النَّيْسَابُورِيُّ، أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ، أَخْبَرَنَا جَرِيرُ بْنُ حَازِمٍ، عَنْ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ سُوَيْدٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ حُجَيْرٍ الْعَدَوِيِّ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فِي هَذِهِ الْقِصَّةِ قَالَ
" وَتُغِيثُوا الْمَلْهُوفَ وَتَهْدُوا الضَّالَّ " .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4817
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4799

Sunan Abu Dawood 4818

Narrated Anas ibn Malik:

A woman came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said: Messenger of Allah: I have some need with you. He said to her: Mother of so and so, sit in the corner of any street you wish and I shall sit with you. So she sat and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ also sat with her till she fulfilled her need.

The narrator Ibn 'Isa did not mention "till she fulfilled her need." And Kathir said: from Humaid on the authority of Anas.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عِيسَى بْنِ الطَّبَّاعِ، وَكَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا مَرْوَانُ، - قَالَ ابْنُ عِيسَى قَالَ - حَدَّثَنَا حُمَيْدٌ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، قَالَ جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ لِي إِلَيْكَ حَاجَةً . فَقَالَ لَهَا
" يَا أُمَّ فُلاَنٍ اجْلِسِي فِي أَىِّ نَوَاحِي السِّكَكِ شِئْتِ حَتَّى أَجْلِسَ إِلَيْكِ " . قَالَ فَجَلَسَتْ فَجَلَسَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ إِلَيْهَا حَتَّى قَضَتْ حَاجَتَهَا . وَلَمْ يَذْكُرِ ابْنُ عِيسَى حَتَّى قَضَتْ حَاجَتَهَا . وَقَالَ كَثِيرٌ عَنْ حُمَيْدٍ عَنْ أَنَسٍ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4818
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4800

Sunan Abu Dawood 4819

ANAS REPORTED THIS TARDITION TO THE SAME EFFECT THROUGH A DIFFERENT CHAIN OF NARRATORS. THIS VERSION ADDS:

A WOMAN WHO HAD SOMETHING(FEEBLENESS) IN HER MIND.

حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، أَخْبَرَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، أَنَّ امْرَأَةً، كَانَ فِي عَقْلِهَا شَىْءٌ بِمَعْنَاهُ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4819
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4801

Sunan Abu Dawood 4820

Narrated AbuSa'id al-Khudri:

I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying: The best places to sit are those which provide most room.

Abu Dawud said: The name of 'Abd al-Rahman b. Abi 'Amr is 'Abd al-Rahman b. 'Amr b. Abi 'Umrat al-Ansari.

حَدَّثَنَا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي الْمَوَالِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي عَمْرَةَ الأَنْصَارِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ
" خَيْرُ الْمَجَالِسِ أَوْسَعُهَا " . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ هُوَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ أَبِي عَمْرَةَ الأَنْصَارِيُّ .

Classification

Sahih (Authentic)

References

Sunan Abu Dawood 4820
Sunan Abu Dawood Vol. 5, Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab), Hadith 4802